No. 141: Acquire Skills to Achieve Your Goals…DESPITE Adversity!

Unless you’re aiming low, no worthwhile goal ever comes easy. There will tough times. And when things get tough, we’re told the tough get GOING.

However my observation of people over 3 decades prove that it’s easier said than done.

Many people cave in easily under pressure. What I’ve found is most who struggle actually need help developing the right mental attitude to deal with scary experience of hardship and other forms of adversity.

That’s why I believe developing Mastery of Adversity is important.

http://tayosolagbade.com/sdnuggets/no-141-acquire-skills-to-achieve-your-goals-despite-adversity/

www.tayosolagbade.com is now online (to replace www.spontaneousdevelopment.com)

And so www.tayosolagbade.com is now online and I'm rapidly moving ALL my webcontent into the new hosting space from the hosting space linked to spontaneousdevelopment.com

Once the site is fully up and running, I'll pos an update here. 

You will be able to explore the offers I make on this website. Over a decade of authentic real world experiences will be at your disposal. 

If nothing else, take up my offer to give a FREE talk at your next event. Invite me to speak to members of your team or group.

NB: The SD Nuggets blog is also already taking shape at www.tayosolagbade.com/sdnugget.com

Stay tuned :-))

Information About Me...

My name is Tayo K. Solagbade. I am the owner of the SD Nuggets blog on my website: www.spontaneousdevelopment.com. 

I created this alternative blog account a year ago after it occurred to me that I might need a temporary holding place for my DAILY blog content publishing in the event of another attack (they've been quite many over the past 9 years!) on my website: spontaneousdevlopment.com.

The events of the past 3 days - regarding my domain (spontaneousdevlopment.com) being taken offline by Aplus.net - my former hosts - under unfair circumstances - explain why I'm now publishing this post here, instead of my SD Nuggets blog on my website. 

I now aim to MOVE all my content to a new hosting platform that allows me to pay for renewals of my domain and hosting without having to depend on 3rd parties in future. As it so happens, my reseller account with Resellerclub.com perfectly positions me to do just that. 

By the time my 9 year's worth of content is moved to www.tayosolagbade.com, I will be able to say GOODBYE to spontaneousdevlopment.com. I realize the massive Google visibility that domain has earned in almost one decade will affect me - but if truth be told, 12 months ago, that domain did not enjoy even one quarter of the rating it has today. 

The brand has grown tremendously in less than 12 months following my relocating to Benin Republic where I've been able to focus almost 100% of using my content marketing to boost my online brand. 

I did it before, and I'm prepared to do it again, this time using a domain that no one can use trickery to STEAL from me, or sabotage. I invite both haters and fair minded people to stay tuned!

NB: See links to posts I made on Facebook below with details...

1. This was my first public post on the development.

2. Here's the follow up I did

There'll be more - until the matter is resolved.

I Don't Need Spontaneousdevelopment.com to Reproduce my Online Success (Why I Refused to Buy Back my 9 Year Old Domain)

As I write this, my domain name has been taken over and made inactive by Aplus.net - a web host that I moved my website from 2 years ago. 

I'm publishing this article with elaborate email and chat transcripts and explanations, to show the world the VERY naughty practices this company has engaged in while dealing with me.

I have no way of determining if any other person(s) have had similar experiences. 

However, I feel obligated to share this information, to alert as many people as may encounter them, about what to watch out for.

Let me start by saying I registered spontaneousdevelopment.com with Aplus.net in 2005, and renewed it with them up till April 2012. 

During this period, I had what I consider a VERY good experience. And this made me recommend that my own Web Marketing clients sign up with them. 

However, following Aplus.net's migration into some partnership arrangement, many strange things began to happen.

Update (7th June 2014 @ 6:07pm in Lagos): They did eventually get back to me in May, but I've been too busy to post the updates. Just 2 screenshots, and I still do NOT buy what they told me...told them so too:

Below: The most recent message from Aplus.net, under which I've pasted the response I promptly sent them. 

Below: My brother-in-law's response to the last message I sent to Aplus.net, under which I've pasted my reply to him.

The following is a verbatim transcript of one such chat session I had with Aplus.net support while still hosted with them (Date was: 15thMarch2012)

==Transcript Starts===

You are now chatting with HelenS

HelenS: Hello, thank you for contacting Technical Support. Please wait one moment while I retrieve your account information.

Tayo Solagbade: Thank you

HelenS: Please specify what program are you using to delete file

Tayo Solagbade: First let me tell you why

Tayo Solagbade: I got the following email message (SPAM) apparently using my domain as FROM, on my blackberry a few seconds ago (see below)

Tayo Solagbade:
Date: Thu, 15 Mar 2012 05:59:19 -0500
From: scanner@spXXtaneousdevelopment.com
Reply-To: scanner@spXXtaneousdevelopment.com
Subject: *****SPAM***** Re: Fwd: Scan from a HP ScanJet #724670
To: cbs@spontaneousdevelopment.com
Attached document was scanned and sent
to you using a Hewlett-Packard ScanJet 423105K.
SENT BY: FAUSTINA
PAGES : 8
FILETYPE: .HTML [Internet Explorer File]
Tayo Solagbade: Here's the HEADER information:
Tayo Solagbade: X-Spam-Flag: YES
X-Envelope-From: TaniaXXX@XXXrine.com
Return-Path: <TaniaXXX@rXXXarine.com>
Received: from 106.186-66-136-0.uio.satnet.net (106.186-66-136-0.uio.satnet.net [186.66.136.106] (may be forged)) by mail40c40.carrierzone.com (8.13.6/8.13.1) with ESMTP id q2FExDLS026957 for <cbs@spXXtaneousdevelopment.com>; Thu, 15 Mar 2012 10:59:18 -0400
Received: from 106.186-66-136-0.uio.satnet.net by mail.rossmarine.com; Thu, 15 Mar 2012 05:59:19 -0500
Message-ID: <9EFD3DA0C59E8297BF67B8213DA059EF@HCXikEAe33>
From: <scanner@spXXntaneousdevelopment.com>
To: <cbs@spXXtaneousdevelopment.com>
Subject: *****SPAM***** Re: Fwd: Scan from a HP ScanJet #724670
Date: Thu, 15 Mar 2012 05:59:19 -0500
MIME-Version: 1.0
Content-Type: multipart/mixed; boundary="----=_NextPart_000_0A29_01CD0292.4A038D80"
X-Priority: 3
X-MSMail-Priority: Normal
X-Mailer: Microsoft Outlook Express 5.00.2615.200
X-MimeOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V5.00.2615.200
X-MMR: 0
X-CSC: 100
X-CHA: v=1.1 cv=D1E7zpp2mwD5bAY1nxKVoeqPOB0oNn0mo+5l86ppA5E= c=1 sm=1 p=fhRNqycLfmIZgQ6zCMEA:9 p=UQ6dIbMs0LWUjeEsP_wA:9 p=g-kLJnuZVpXU-GCmEqwA:9 p=8HX-hJF2EPxRoa5rYM4A:7 a=8wvE-tlKgYAA:10 a=wIEFc5AdX34A:10 a=qEj1S7HdTu3+bJIVvldblw==:17 a=jiObf9B0YAUA:10 a=_W_S_7VecoQA:10 a=qEj1S7HdTu3+bJIVvldblw==:117
X-WHL: SLR

Tayo Solagbade: I have been recently checking my server files and noticed the card.cgi script's log showed some remote attempts to run it. So I decided to start by deleting that script even though I 've had it for years, and the developer built my site's contact CGI script i.e. bnbform.cgi

Tayo Solagbade: Can you possibly check from your end to establish how this SPAM message got sent out (seemingly) from my domain?

HelenS: is it for domain spontaneousdevelopment.com ?

Tayo Solagbade: Yes it is.

HelenS: please hold, will try to replicate

Tayo Solagbade: Replicate what?

HelenS: will try to remove this file

Tayo Solagbade: Ok.

HelenS: I will create a ticket regarding this

HelenS: Please hold

Tayo Solagbade: Once again I find myself at a loss as to what is happening with my Aplus hosting account. Some days ago I had major problems uploading a NEW home page to replace my OLD home page. It took over an hour.

Eventually an Aplus tech support chat agent had to delete it from YOUR end, just like you just tried to do. Why should deleting a file in MY OWN website be something I cannot do. Helen, this is just one of many STRANGE mishaps that keep occurring on my website recently. Is there a problem I need to know about?

HelenS: Ticket #2651957 was created. We will investigate your issue and inform you with our resolution in the next 24 hours

Tayo Solagbade: You seem not to have any answer for me regarding the question I asked:

Why am I having repeat issues of strange mishaps (files getting deleted, resized to zero, inability to delete my own files, inability to replace old files with new ones?). This never used to happen

HelenS: possibly your account is affected

HelenS: we will investigate this

Tayo Solagbade: I have a million questions. But I guess I better let you do your work. What bothers me however is the possibilty that someone could launch a massive spam campaign using my domain between now, and when your "investigation" ends. I still have no explanation as to how it could have happened.

Tayo Solagbade: Is there a way to "disable" likely areas to minimise chances of that happening?

Any steps I can take from my end, in the meantime. I ask this question because APLUS is my host, and I imagine the Tech Support will be able to guide me on steps to take,
at times like this.

HelenS: Yes, you can change all your admin password, download the files on your local machine and scan with antivirus software 

Tayo Solagbade: Well, I just changed ALL my admin passwords about 2 weeks ago, as suggested by one of your colleagues. I will download and scan the files right now. If I find anything, would it be wise to delete the ones on the website, and then upload the scanned versions?

==Transcript Ends===

The problems continued into April 2012, and that informed my decision to eventually move my hosting account to Hostgator.com.

Apart from spending over 2 weeks getting the site setup to run properly after the main migration, I also paid over $230 USD to effect the move.

Now Aplus.net have hit at me again, this time by using a "technicality" to take over ownership of my domain. 

Note the screenshot below, of the "New Venture Services" website they asked me to sent a ticket to. There is an Aplus.net link at the bottom which confirms it's a sister company or subsidiary of some sort. What crooked, unethical and irresponsible practices these people offer as a service.

Like I told a friedn while wonderign about the hosting problems I was having with them, I had no way of knowing if I was the only person having the bad experiences. One thing was however certain - the attacks were VERY targetted.

The files and pages picked on were not random. They were the main sales pages for my key products and services.

Whoever was doing it knew exactly where to go. Each ttime I followed their instructions to clean it up, the person went right back and damaged them again. Ever since I moved to hostgator.com NOT once has such a thing happened!

Below: Screenshots I took of my hosting web space with Aplus.net when the problems happened.

Screenshots I took of my hosting web space with Aplus.net when the problems happened.

1. Note the filetypes labeled HTM_INFECTED. Those were files that I uploaded normally, which mysteriously developed virus infections.

And I began getting visitors complaining they were getting virus warnings e.g at the home page for my Farm Business ideas mini site (iff.spontaneousdevelopment.com) and my Custom Excel Software Development Service website (excelheaven.spontaneousdevelopment.com).

Each time Aplus.net asked me to download them and clean them using antivirus software, I did that and re uploaded. Within a week or two the problem would reoccur with the exact same files.

The irony however, is that since 2 years of being hosted with Hostgator.com, the same files have NEVER had such problems!

2. See screenshot showing a chat window I launched, in which I complained about the problems I was having. This was something I found myself doing many times in one week. That had never been the case in the past.

 

Apart from what I suffered with my own hosting account with Aplus.net back then, an entrepreneurial client couple I signed up with them also got a VERY raw deal, and at a point lost virtually everything I built for them(i.e. a website based on a custom Web Marketing System).

At a point I had to try relating with Aplus.net on their behalf when no feedback on a major website problem they had was forthcoming.

Here's a verbatim chat transcript from one such interaction with Aplus.net support, on my client's behalf...Note that I actually started by complaining about a problem I was having with MY OWN website AGAIN! (Date was 8th Feb 2012)

==Transcript Starts===

You are now chatting with Tania S.

Tania S.: Hello, thank you for contacting Technical Support. Would you please provide me with your domain name or Registration Number with the account's password?

Tayo Solagbade: Hi. ap2689689627

Tayo Solagbade: pword: 0xxxxxxxxxxxx1

Tania S.: Would you please provide more details on the issue while I verify your data?

Tayo Solagbade: I was told by the chat agent I spoke with earlier that my index.php file was missing from my Joomla site at
http://www.spontaneousdevelopment.com/joomla/

Tania S.: Sylvia created a ticket for you, #2635933

Tayo Solagbade: I do not understand why it needs a ticket. The site loaded okay on 30th jan. And one of the reasons I've stayed with aplus since 2006 is because I am protected by the "file resoration" service you offer. Is there any reason why that would not be applicable here?

Tania S.: you may try the restore option in File Manager Pro if you wish, but Sylvia created a ticket so our Tier 3 team check backups

Tania S.: by the way, issue is resolved by now and ticket will be closed soon,

http://www.spontaneousdevelopment.com/joomla/ opens fine

Tayo Solagbade: That's great - and thanks to Tania and yourself for the timely resolution.

Tayo Solagbade: Tania, I'm going to be honest with you here. The last time a member of your team gave me a similar answer (ie. "Tier 3 etc") in relation to a Joomla site I was handling for a client I convinced to host with Aplus.

Tania S.: you are welcome

Tayo Solagbade: Up till now, my client says the problem has not been resolved with their access to phpMyAdmin. I told them that has not been my experience with Aplus.net, but it's difficult to argue with them when nothing is happening with a problem they've reported and gotten no feedback on. Could you possibly help contact your Tier 3 team about the www.pxxxxxxxxxxxx.com joomla website ticket?

Tania S.: do you have ticket number for that case? I see only one ticket for this domain, it is for Wordpess and quite old

Tayo Solagbade: Please hold

Tayo Solagbade: From:
"Chat Transcript service" <transcripts@xxxxxxxxxxxx.com>
Subject:
Transcript of your last chat session
Sent date:
11/17/2011 014:39 PM
To:
<marketing@pxxxxxxxxxxs.com>
For your convenience and future reference, here is the copy of the web chat you had with our Technical Support department.

[11:55 AM] Tayo Solagbade has joined the room

[11:55 AM] paulp has joined the room

[11:55 AM] paulp: Hello, thank you for contacting Technical Support. Please wait one moment while I retrieve your account information.

[11:56 AM] paulp: Please kindly be informed that the ticket # 2588050 is still under investigation at our Tier 3 Technical Support Team

[11:57 AM] Tayo Solagbade: That's be! en on since 23/10/2011 - almost a month now!

[11:59 AM] Tayo Solagbade: I have been unable to give my clients a "specific" reason why this problem has persisted since the ticket was raised by the agent I chatted with on the 23rd of Oct.

[11:59 AM] Tayo Solagbade: Is there anything you can tell me?

[11:59 AM] paulp: We deeply apologize for the inconvenience and extanded wait

[121 PM] Tayo Solagbade: How much longer will this take? Is there something you can tell me, so I can assure my clients there's no cause for worry? As things stand, I only get ! to pass on your apologies and the news that it is STI|LL with your Tie r 3 team...

[123 PM] paulp: our Tier 3 Team is investigating and testing this issue, and it will be resolved as soon as possible, as the ticket is on high priority level

[123 PM] paulp: we are doing all our best in resolving this issue

[124 PM] Tayo Solagbade: I guess that's all one can ask. Many thanks for your help. Look forward to hearing from you once everything is OK. Hopefully, soon.

[124 PM] Tayo Solagbade: Have a lovely day!

[124 PM] Tayo Solagbade has left the! room

==Transcript Ends===

NB: We never heard back from them!

Final Words

I'll be honest here and say that at a point, when the bad experiences kept occurring on my website, I could not help feeling I was being targeted. Indeed, certain other negative experiences I'd had online around that time from other quarters suggested the Aplus.net incursions were "sponsored".

Regular visitors and subscribers to my weekly newsletter and SD Nuggets blog may recall reports I published in some of my articles. But of course I have no proof. It was however strange that I kept getting those attacks while others did not.

With this stunt pulled by Aplus.net on 5th May 2014, I now have greater reason to believe there's more to all the nasty experiences I've had with them, than meets the eye.

However, as I've stated in my response to Aplus.net, I'm MOVING forward no matter what. 

And it is my hope that by sharing this experience of mine, others who read it will find the INSPIRATION to defy those who try to exploit or intimidate them in ANY way!

As you read this, I want you to know that by the end of May 2014, at the latest, if you wish to find me online, it WILL be best to go via www.tayosolagbade.com - and NOT via spontaneousdevelopment.com. 

Even if I get the latter domain back, I intend to retire it.

The updates I've commenced on my web pages are being carried out with that in mind.

All URLs bearing spontaneousdevelopment.com WILL be changed to tayosolagbade.com.

Once again I invite ALL haters as well as fair minded persons to stay tuned!

Information About Me...

My name is Tayo K. Solagbade. I am the owner of the SD Nuggets blog on my website: www.spontaneousdevelopment.com. 

I created this alternative blog account a year ago after it occurred to me that I might need a temporary holding place for my DAILY blog content publishing in the event of another attack (they've been quite many over the past 9 years!) on my website: spontaneousdevlopment.com.

The events of the past 3 days - regarding my domain (spontaneousdevlopment.com) being taken offline by Aplus.net - my former hosts - under unfair circumstances - explain why I'm now publishing this post here, instead of my SD Nuggets blog on my website. 

I now aim to MOVE all my content to a new hosting platform that allows me to pay for renewals of my domain and hosting without having to depend on 3rd parties in future. As it so happens, my reseller account with Resellerclub.com perfectly positions me to do just that. 

By the time my 9 year's worth of content is moved to www.tayosolagbade.com, I will be able to say GOODBYE to spontaneousdevlopment.com. I realize the massive Google visibility that domain has earned in almost one decade will affect me - but if truth be told, 12 months ago, that domain did not enjoy even one quarter of the rating it has today. 

The brand has grown tremendously in less than 12 months following my relocating to Benin Republic where I've been able to focus almost 100% of using my content marketing to boost my online brand. 

I did it before, and I'm prepared to do it again, this time using a domain that no one can use trickery to STEAL from me, or sabotage. I invite both haters and fair minded people to stay tuned!

NB: See links to posts I made on Facebook below with details...

1. This was my first public post on the development.

2. Here's the follow up I did

There'll be more - until the matter is resolved.

The World Needs Problem Solvers - NOT Inept People With Qualifications!

Do you want to be valued and respected? Do you want to immunize yourself against failure? Would you like your child to also enjoy the aforementioned benefits? 

If yes, you need to start deliberately developing real world relevant problem solving skills, and abilities, to complement any academic qualifications you pick up via exposure to formal schooling.

[NB: This write-up is here temporarily. Once I finish work on my real website (with regard to developments described HERE - click to read), it will be relocated to my hosted Wordpress SD Nuggets blog.] 

People with problem solving skills - be it in the intellectual or physical realm - are frequently considered USEFUL, anywhere they go.

It rarely matters if they are formally schooled or not. My 7 year stay in Guinness Nigeria helped me see that great value is placed on people with problem solving skills. And that inspired me to become one.

Was just about to share this with a comment that I was taken on by a relative who questioned my deliberate skills based coaching of my kids, to the seeming detriment of their "formal schooling".

I explained to her that life taught me that having problem solving skills is way better than accumulating certifications.

During my 7 year stay in Guinness, my degree in Agric Extension had little or no relevance to my work, initially as a brewer or years later, as Acting Production Manager.

Instead it was my self-taught skill of spreadsheet automation using programming to solve brewery data recording and report generation problems, that made me shine repeatedly like a thousand stars till I left to do it as a business.

And I met many support staff from foreign manufacturers of plants used in the brewery, who were often just technicians. 

When they came down, they trained people with bigger academic qualifications to have the more important practical competence needed to get their jobs done...
What a massive paradox!!

The above insights made me resolve to put skill acquisition ahead of academic qualification.

That's why I never went back for a Masters, despite narrowly missing 1st class as Best Graduating Student from my department in 1992, at the University of Ibadan.

It's the reason I made a point of learning website development and marketing techniques. That skill has helped me repeatedly defeat efforts to sabotage my brand online, by attacking my website(like Monday's event which has now made me decide to make major domain changes).

Imagine if I had to pay a 3rd party to do such work each time it's happened. I would be at his/her mercy.

And s/he may not even deliver. Please note, that I say this with specific reference to my part of the worlds. People in developed societies face much better realities in this regard.

All of the above insights made me buy my 10year old boy a complete electrical toolkit, after noticing his flair for fiddling with and fixing things, on his last birthday.

My 10 year old son with his tools and a contraption he was building. Don't be fooled by the rough appearance of what you see. This young man actually makes stuff that work, and FIXES things too. I've written several articles with details of this.

Today, he's the goto guy for his mother (and the rest of us) when a plug goes bad, a bulb is bad, or even when an adaptor or phone charger won't work. 

I'm doing a special PDF feature write-up on him by Friday 9th May 2014 - based on a recent discussion session I had with him, to find out what made him "tick": He is SO INTENSE!

Apart from that, since I developed my Pineapple peel based drinks and cakes made without oven in Cotonou last year, I've taught my 3 boys to make them, and they've been selling them in their school, making over 50% profits.

Over a year ago, I made the eldest (who turns 15 in a few weeks time) undertake a 6 month weekend practical manual typewriting course with a private instructor in Ikeja.

During this period, I would drive with him to the Lagos High Court area in Ikeja GRA, and make him watch the ladies who typed all sorts of legal documents for a fee, using beat up manual typewriters.

We would listen in on their conversations, as they negotiated with clients who came in to have affidavits, and others documents typed for various purposes.

Then, on eour way home, he and I would discuss what we'd seen. And I would often remind him that NONE of the women was ever asked to show her "certificate" - and yet some made well over N1,000 from an individual client. In just one day...!

I continue working with my kids to refine their know-how as it relates to handling and using money they make using the skills I'm helping them acquire.

I always try to share stories like this to challenge more people to go beyond paying lip service to empowering themselves, or their kids.

Look carefully around you, and you'll discover that people who get ahead in life, and achieve long term authentic success often get there by doing the above.

You can - and should - emulate them, if you desire similar results!

RELATED READING

The Tentmaker: "Skilling - Up".(Part 2). - By Dr. Strive Masiyiwa

Information About Me...

My name is Tayo K. Solagbade. I am the owner of the SD Nuggets blog on my website: www.spontaneousdevelopment.com.

I created this alternative blog account a year ago after it occurred to me that I might need a temporary holding place for my DAILY blog content publishing in the event of another attack (they've been quite many over the past 9 years!) on my website: spontaneousdevlopment.com.

The events of the past 3 days - regarding my domain (spontaneousdevlopment.com) being taken offline by Aplus.net - my former hosts - under unfair circumstances - explain why I'm now publishing this post here, instead of my SD Nuggets blog on my website. 

I now aim to MOVE all my content to a new hosting platform that allows me to pay for renewals of my domain and hosting without having to depend on 3rd parties in future. As it so happens, my reseller account with Resellerclub.com perfectly positions me to do just that. 

By the time my 9 year's worth of content is moved to www.tayosolagbade.com, I will be able to say GOODBYE to spontaneousdevlopment.com. I realize the massive Google visibility that domain has earned in almost one decade will affect me - but if truth be told, 12 months ago, that domain did not enjoy even one quarter of the rating it has today. 

The brand has grown tremendously in less than 12 months following my relocating to Benin Republic where I've been able to focus almost 100% of using my content marketing to boost my online brand. 

I did it before, and I'm prepared to do it again, this time using a domain that no one can use trickery to STEAL from me, or sabotage. I invite both haters and fair minded people to stay tuned!

NB: See links to posts I made on Facebook below with details...

1. This was my first public post on the development.

2. Here's the follow up I did

There'll be more - until the matter is resolved.

Haters Cannot Change Your Destiny!

A great man once said: 

"Destiny is not a matter of chance, but of choice. Not something to be wished for but to be attained." 

Shina Peters also once sang in his native Yoruba: 

"Aye o le pa kadara da. Won kan le fa owo ago pada si eyin ni." 

Contextual Translation: 

"Haters cannot change a person's destiny. They can only turn the hands of the clock back i.e slow him/her down." 

[NB: This write-up is here temporarily. Once I finish work on my real website (with regard to developments described HERE - click to read), it will be relocated to my hosted Wordpress SD Nuggets blog.] 

This afternoon, I had a chat session with my current web hosts about the issues with my primary domain now locked off by my former host, Aplus.net 

From the feedback Hostgator have given me, it's obvious there's lots of work I have to do, to modify my hosting account and entire website content to work with a different domain name I have control over. 

I'm now awaiting a quote from them, for the configuration that may be needed. 

I am also still pursuing a response from Aplus.net to my request that they supply at least the name on the credit card they claim the charge back happened on. 

But even if I get the domain freed, I will still carry out my plan to NOT use spontaneousdevelopment.com as my primary domain anymore, until it's no longer with Aplus.net. 

These unexpected developments, and the new plans I just began implementing now make it apparent to me that it's unlikely I'll be able to find the time, and resources, to really do what is needed to honour an invitation I got (along with a professional colleague) to attend an event for public speakers in the USA in June 2014. 

I'd intended my new marketing plan targeting Farm CEOs with speaking and coaching solution to serve as the "driver" towards achieving that goal. 

But the current realities now make it obvious that my prorities need to change. 

And so tonight I begin a long overdue process of re-inventing my massive library of web content, based on my personal brand. Www.tayosolagbade.com got renewed using my reseller account for a second year today at $9.99 US dollars. 

If the GT Bank Naira Mastercard I used had been accepted by the payment processing system at Aplus.net, I would easily have renewed spontaneousdevelopment.com by myself. Instead I have to depend on friends or relatives based abroad to use their cards on my behalf to pay Aplus, and hostgator. Very awkward and sometimes humiliating. 

If I'd been able to pay with my own card, this ridiculous excuse they've used to lock down my primary domain may not have worked. 

But then again, I've been conflicted for months about how to make tayosolagbade.com lead people to my content online via search engines. 

Spontaneousdevelopment.com at over 8 years old had always looked too big to replace. 

And yet I knew my goal of using speaking and coaching to promote my offers in my travels, would benefit much more from use of tayosolagbade.com. 

As luck would have it, those aiming to hurt me have inadvertently helped me. Now I'm taking the excuse of this situation, to carryout the long overdue re-purposing of the web content I've been creating since 2005.

I'm going to really enjoy using this as an object lesson to the haters who foolishly keep thinking they can stop me. 


Shina Peters' words of wisdom reproduced above, accurately captures my message here. 

Let me quote him again: 

"Aye o le pa kadara da. Won kan le fa owo ago pada si eyin ni." 

Translation: 

"Haters cannot change a person's destiny. They can only turn the hands of the clock back i.e slow him/her down." 

From tomorrow I launch a temporary alternative platform to publish my new DAILY content, while I work on the changes to my site. I estimate it might take most of this month of May 2014 to finish. 

There's lots to be done, but I intend to continue my online publishing as normal. 

So here we go! 

Information About Me...

My name is Tayo K. Solagbade. I am the owner of the SD Nuggets blog on my website: www.spontaneousdevelopment.com. 

I created this alternative blog account a year ago after it occurred to me that I might need a temporary holding place for my DAILY blog content publishing in the event of another attack (they've been quite many over the past 9 years!) on my website: spontaneousdevlopment.com.

The events of the past 3 days - regarding my domain (spontaneousdevlopment.com) being taken offline by Aplus.net - my former hosts - under unfair circumstances - explain why I'm now publishing this post here, instead of my SD Nuggets blog on my website. 

I now aim to MOVE all my content to a new hosting platform that allows me to pay for renewals of my domain and hosting without having to depend on 3rd parties in future. As it so happens, my reseller account with Resellerclub.com perfectly positions me to do just that. 

By the time my 9 year's worth of content is moved to www.tayosolagbade.com, I will be able to say GOODBYE to spontaneousdevlopment.com. I realize the massive Google visibility that domain has earned in almost one decade will affect me - but if truth be told, 12 months ago, that domain did not enjoy even one quarter of the rating it has today. 

The brand has grown tremendously in less than 12 months following my relocating to Benin Republic where I've been able to focus almost 100% of using my content marketing to boost my online brand. 

I did it before, and I'm prepared to do it again, this time using a domain that no one can use trickery to STEAL from me, or sabotage. I invite both haters and fair minded people to stay tuned!

NB: See links to posts I made on Facebook below with details...

1. This was my first public post on the development.

2. Here's the follow up I did

There'll be more - until the matter is resolved.